Well my M is headed for D ..she filed ...but she's been in a EA or PA with this guy for several months. I mean she had hundreds of texts on her phone ...but she continued to tell me they were just friends but i found out they made out a couple times and when I confronted her she said it was when she was drinking - like that made it ok. Now today I see she is using his password to lock her texts ...they are more than friends and our relationship will not recovery as long as she is in that relationship ...don't know how to get her to quit - she'll have to figure it out on her own and if she chooses not to i guess we are done. I don't want a D either but I'm not living like this.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
