Afraid I have waited too long

[nit84]

Thanks Bunches for the thoughts!!

I didn't look at it the way you did it gives me another perspective to consider.

I thought maybe by allowing her to transfer herself it shows that I trust her even though we are S. I truly do trust her with this aspect of our sitch.

I can see how you could deduce that it may be me trying to control the situation some more, truly not my intent.

She has been paying the bills for almost nine months now with only one or two minor hiccups. Easily things that are not even worth mentioning, so I am happy about this and hope if we R she will continue to pay the bills going forward. This money transfer issue was just something I thought might allow her to feel more equal and show trust in her. Something she said I didn't do before in the M.