You job right now is to continue becoming the strongest individual you can possibly become. The best man you can be. At this point, like me, all you can do is work on co-parenting. To do it right and minimally child impacting- its real hard.
Who were you when you met her at 27? Outgoing, strong, confident? Thats the person she was attracted too....Where is THAT Maritimer?
(FYI- I asked myself that same question and I might as well hit a giant Midlife crisis button)
She isnt laughing, joking or casually conversing right now because she is hyper- vigilant in making sure she doesnt give you any mixed signals.
stop TRYING to get her back - live YOUR life......its the only shot of her waking up.
It is a business right now.
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
