hey ya Mach,

No trick.
No tactic.

I know those do not work, and usually backfire.

I'm at the "enough" Rubicon and moving forward.

I did consult with my L again on Friday, making sure my info was up to date on costs, process, etc. I downloaded all the forms in case we can do it DIY.

And she said she knows it can't go on like this forever for any of us.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm