I understand your point eric, but T's W has already had several 'soft' timelines, and has shown an inability to decide. Without a specified timeline this could go on forever. I like his latest plan.
T, I didn't see anything about counseling in the packet. I know you talked about it being one of your requirements before. Is it still?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl