Upwards - DB myself to happiness!

[Upwards]

Tarheel - it was a very similar situation for me and I knew about EA straight from BD but H was adamant that they were "just good friends" which I believed but knew it would move onto more than that, I was correct and they've slept together since once and remain in contact via phone/text every day - he says that there is no relationship and its not serious bla bla.

After our talk on monday and him asking can we be friends and see what happens I told him straight that I wasnt willing to do that whilst she's still around, I just cant, it would be torture for me knowing that he's texting her all the time whilst also spending time with me.

I text him today with what I wrote above and have spoke to him since but he's not mentioned it, I don't know whether to wait a few days then ask for his decision or just assume that because he's not given an answer it means he's chosen to stay in contact with her? I don't want to put on too much pressure but at the same time I refuse to be in a triangle!!

To put full NC in place there are logistics to sort out so I cant just do it without arranging things with him first if that makes sense.

HELP!