No communication from H. No word about the money he transferred a few days ago. No questions about taxes, he knows he needs to sign them.
I guess I went ahead of myself thinking that past weekend was some kind of progress. He went back into the tunnel. Did he get scared? Why? I was not pursuing, I was not pushing, I was not asking any questions. I was happily doing my own things. There is no ground for him to use any kind of excuse, like he used last year when he said that he didn’t want to hurt me and this was why he was keeping the distance.
Is he waiting for me to contact him? I had a wild thought that he might be using the DB techniques on me, like no contact. The only problem is that it is not working. I am not going to initiate contact, unless I absolutely have to, like for tax filing that has to be done before the deadline.
I know that I need to have more patience. It is the uncertainty that bugs me sometimes, even thought I’m used to this status quo now.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state