Redefining Hope and Success

[bluesgal]

Julie-I have no doubt you'll handle this well since you are the queen of self control.

I think it would be best to think "that's interesting" and enjoy the small positives. We both know how they can flip a switch and spew on the drop of a hat provoked or not.

Maybe this could be a chance to listen and see if he makes any indication of what he's thinking.

Is he still drinking? I think it's easier when there's no contact b/c there's no expectations. When our H come around a little, it's easy to get our hopes up and want for more...then be let down if things swing back to the negative. Keep smiling, Julie. Let him take the lead and reciprocate.

Keep posting...you've peaked my curiosity. You're such a patient lady!