Oh, Bea, hugs. All the whys we can't answer. So unfair: I am only 6 months into this nightmare, so nothing on you, but agree the loss of partner to lean on is hard, and in our case, since they are also the source of the stress, doubly so! But you are holding up so well and pursuing your side of the law and business end so rationally. Good job and enjoy your family (children).
M 20 yrs me 47 H 51 s11 d8
BD 10/8/13 H Moved out 11/30/13 OW slept over with children Dec '13 OW moved in w/H Jan '14