At this point, I have given her ample opportunity to reconcile, her actions demonstrate this is not a possibility. Divorce is inevitable. However DB'ing did help me find myself again. On the drive home from my meetup last night, with the windows down and the music pumping, I realized I feel alive again, and hopeful about the future.
Kdog sounds like you're in a good state mind. I remember saying those words too. giving them every opportunity to work in the R and even offering a solution plan. We can't make anyone want to do the work.
Feel good about your efforts to save your M and keep moving forward.
Rip off that rearview mirror, that chapter is over.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."