Absolutely. Don't get me wrong, I also see many of my faults too. Thankfully my wife has pointed some of these out but I've also picked some up on my own. I feel like massive blinkers have been removed. I do appreciate more about my wife now, even if she doesn't intend things as a loving gesture.
Yeh that's exactly it, its like the blinkers have been removed and everything becomes so clear - I had no idea what was going on whilst I was in the situation though, its a blessing I suppose as we can learn from our mistakes and move forwards.
Divorce Final: Oct 2014
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