Absolutely. Don't get me wrong, I also see many of my faults too. Thankfully my wife has pointed some of these out but I've also picked some up on my own. I feel like massive blinkers have been removed. I do appreciate more about my wife now, even if she doesn't intend things as a loving gesture.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014