BG, have you re-read HeartsBlessings stages of MLC recently? I just read it and your description of his behavior at the party sounded familiar to stage description. Sometimes it helps me to see H behavior as textbook rather than personal. Helps me with detaching.
LL


LL 43 H 51
T 8 M 6
SS 17 15
S 6 D 3
H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died
mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms
IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14
DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb
So confused