Welcome to the journey. I am new too. Your story is quite a whirlwind. One thing that strikes me is how much your children have been yanked around. I would suggest trying to recreate a detailed record of all of that in a notebook. I did buy DR and it helps. There are still ups and downs emotionally but as they say it helps regain dignity and formulate a strategy. I read Sandi's rules every day. Every day I do something different (180) from my old patterns. For me!
LL 43 H 51 T 8 M 6 SS 17 15 S 6 D 3 H MLC started early 2013-think earlier actually, when BFF almost died mini-BD 8/13 separate rooms IDLYA, demands D ASAP 1/14 DR,DB,180s,LRT,GAL since mid Feb So confused
