When she left the store she told me: I will press charges if you dont pay the taxes by april 1st, I told her why can we talk about this in a civil way?
“can we talk in a civil way” can be a little condescending imo. At the end of the day, what do YOU really need to talk about. You both owe tax money. You both have a responsibility to pay it. Bottom line if you really do not have the money then all you need to discuss is 1) request an extension from the IRS or 2) when will you have the money. This discussion should be had ONCE and ONCE only. Continuing to go back and forth with her is pointless. Communicate what you will do and then do it.
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Man, I am so powerless over all this...
Powerless over her and how SHE feels – YES. Powerless over YOU and YOUR emotions – NO.
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At least today, I feel calm, serenity and just let go and let God....all I can do is take care of myself and my life...
Yep – that is all you can do.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
Wow I was walking around today looking for a job, such a nice day here in NY... Thank you guys for your support...I see how things are changing, 2 months ago when I cam here I couldnt take any advice....today I appreciate the support and I can see totally what you guys are telling me, I am proud of myself for that Its amazing how at peace I feel and how I am realizing that this is the way things are and I am accepting them that way.... I am showing up in the actions to change and have a different approach at things and I dont think I couldnt be able to see all that without your input.
Again guys thank you for been overthere thanks ericsand, I can see how I was beein condescending with her...old habits of always thinking I can control the outcomes instead of accepting that now this is how she feels and how she needs to feel...
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
Got the job I applied for yesterday!!! I left the decission in the hands of God and it worked!!! Yayy one more reason to smile today
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
