I agree somewhat Wonka. We live in the country on an acreage and it's beautiful, a place that would be great for my kids to grow up without a doubt. Financially I can make it work to keep the house, but my W out and have my kids with me, but it would be a stretch.

I'm definitely giving this a LOT of thought and any decision I make will not be made lightly. I've been prepared to make the move for some time now. Initially it did have something to do with "being a nice guy" but I'm not so worried about that these days. I'm more concerned with making sure that my kids have me for no less than half their time. Everything else can be replaced, I've always been pretty good when it comes to making a living. When it comes to the lives of my kids I will always take the more cautious route.


Me-40,W-37
D7, D5, S3
Separated Oct 3/2013
T 11 YRS
M 7 YRS