It feels like one HUGE gamble to go for everything I want if my W is offering 50/50 with our kids. There's a chance if I won a battle in court that the kids could be forced to be brought back to my province and that I would still get 50/50 but that's one heck of a gamble.
IF you really wanted to stay where you lived, IF you really wanted to do more to the house, IF you really wanted your kids to grow up in YOUR home, IF you wanted to do "VERY WELL" in the future...well what do you think you need to do?
Also, based on your last post here..it seems like worse case scenario is you move and get 50/50.
Personally, I think you do not want to piss off your w. I have a funny feeling that deep down inside you are doing this so that she can "see what a nice guy you are". I think you are still afraid and that fear is clouding your judgement.
I know that it is scary man, and i would not want you to make this a war; however, I do think you need to be very clear on what you want and what you are will to do to achieve it. A little pain now may make a world of difference in the future. As I said earlier, I will support whatever you decide to do.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
