WH, I'm sorry to read that your son is ill. Definitely take him to the doctor and get a medical opinion and hopefully a prescription for meds to help him get better quicker.
Your h is bound and determined to go around Robin Hood's barn to try to get what he wants and he's trying to make people think he knows what he's talking about. You are right, you can't control him and if he wants to look stupid, he's doing a fine job of it. I'm hoping he's not stupid enough to sign that paper for you and present it as a document that you've agreed to.
Please take care of yourself, but stay on your toes...he's not done yet.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
