Welcome to the community. If you have not read Divorce Remedy, get it ASAP and read the chapter on Last Resort Technique.

Get a good lawyer and find out your rights as a father. See what you can do to protect your children, home, etc. Protect your finances.

Hope you will post every day, and you will get more responses.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!