Need help saving my family - part 6

[ericmsant2]

The problem I am facing is that at this point I may not be able to have my kids brought back to our home province.

“may not” does not mean “cannot”

If my W won't come back to my province then I will do whatever it takes to make 50/50 with my kids happen.

OR you can go for FULL custody.

If my W is prepared to agree to 50/50 without having to battle in court then I will take that.

Quick story….I agreed to an alimony settlement “because I didn’t have to battle in court”…fast forward a few years….boy do I wish I had fought. The easy road is NOT always the right path.

The above noted…I get why you may take the path you are taking. So I would only suggest that you ….

From Barry “I would start at where you WANT to be first.

As drew mentioned, you have not really tried yet. Start with that and see where it goes. Oh…and any fear you may be feeling right now – get rid of it. Hold on to your *uts, cause it could get interesting.

The moving and having to sell the house, could also be something that you may want to consider. If you are taking a loss on the house (or less of a gain) because of HER CHOICES – well then, maybe she needs to absorb those losses if you are to move.