This morning she tells me she has an appointment with L to start paperwork. Wonders aloud if she should cancel it. Then texts me later to say "you looked good today". I replied with a simple thank you. SMH- I guess as confused as she is making me, she must be way more confused and emotionally hijacked, right? Sandi, 25? You two ladies have given lots of great advice and reminders to others that I've read over the past couple months...any thoughts for me? I'm realizing that any chance of reconciling for us will come after the D, after the dust has settled, and after we both do more work. Is this the right mindset?
