Need help saving my family - part 6

[Scorp7]

Wonka, yes we own a large home we just had built on an acreage. It will need to be sold unless my W either voluntarily moves back to my home province (not likely to happen) or she is forced to by the court (possible but not likely at this point).

My moving to the same area as my W is 100% necessary if we are to have 50/50 with our kids. They are 4 hours away in another province so I would have to be there for me to have equal time.

Eric, there were signs that my W was not sure about D for several months so I did not want to rock the boat and have L's involved early on. In hindsight it was the wrong move but at the time it seemed the right thing to do.

I want my kids to have both their parents with them all the time (ie. having my W and I back together) but since I cannot control my W I have separated my desire to save my M from what is best for my kids. Over time who knows what may happen with my W and I but I'm trying to not let that effect my actions with regard to my kids.