How many hours/week do you spend with the kids-not counting sleeping?
What do you mean? Literally how many waking hours do I have with the kids?
Yes, I'm just wondering how you're seeing the 50/50, or whatever percentage comes up. Trying to envision it in my mind.
I think what you've proposed is a good transition. I think he should be included in the discussion with an objective third party and that the evaluation of how they're doing should be by the same objective third party.
Change is difficult for everyone, especially for kids as they have very little control of how their lives are planned. It was good that you opened up the conversation with them after the weekend with Dad. They might not have said much but at least they know they can talk about it with you and hopefully with Dad.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
