The problem I am facing is that at this point I may not be able to have my kids brought back to our home province. It's possible but it's far from a sure thing.
I totally understand, which is one of the reasons I suggested having the L take a look at it and provide you with some direction. If the L feels that chances are that she can have the kids move back is slim to none, then I guess you have no choice, at least if you want a 50/50 split to move if your W does not move back on her own. I hope you have learned something from this (not trying to be preachy here)...I hope you are beinging to realize how you need to separate your role as a Dad from the role of an H.
Your working from home and the nanny sounds like a good idea. I would be careful with the nanny comment. You do not want her to use that somehow as a way to say that the kids should be with her. Maybe limit the hours the nannie will have them and shift your work load to after the kid go to sleep.
Do you have a proposed plan in terms of actual visitation days/times?
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