Do you own a house in your province? If yes, then that is another item you'll need to factor in. I am not understanding why W's ILs are wanting you to move in their area since she's upped and moved away unilaterally. As you said previously, W's home is not in an ideal place.
I am with Eric...focus on the parenting plan instead of moving and answering work-related questions. They are just "noise" to me. The key here is to get a parenting plan/agreement in place then all other details will take care of themselves.
