Nope. I am NOT agreeing to 50/50 physical custody. Joint legal custody, yes. Physical 50/50? No. Not right now. I do not believe it is in the best interest of the kids. And I am not going to screw them over in order to make my H happy and less mad at me.
I am not understanding why you feel strongly this way. I mean, H isn't a danger to the kids..as far as we know.
How is it different from joint legal custody other than semantics? Maybe I am wrong here.
I do not believe it is in the best interest of the kids.
Based on what? Are the kids in real physical danger here?
Believe me, I am not here to bash you...I ask these ^^^ questions in order to peel away the layers of self-protection and really look at the true reasons for this mindset you currently have.
I get your mother feelings about this, I really, really do.
But in the other part of your brain, why?
I echo Wonka, are they in danger with your H and are these things that were significant enough to be addressed during the time of your M?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
