M,

You seem so dug in on this one:

Nope. I am NOT agreeing to 50/50 physical custody. Joint legal custody, yes. Physical 50/50? No. Not right now. I do not believe it is in the best interest of the kids. And I am not going to screw them over in order to make my H happy and less mad at me.

I am not understanding why you feel strongly this way. I mean, H isn't a danger to the kids..as far as we know.

How is it different from joint legal custody other than semantics? Maybe I am wrong here.

I do not believe it is in the best interest of the kids.

Based on what? Are the kids in real physical danger here?

Believe me, I am not here to bash you...I ask these ^^^ questions in order to peel away the layers of self-protection and really look at the true reasons for this mindset you currently have.