I'm just catching up and I may have missed something. I know you have had some challenges with h, but does he not think the kids are struggling with their parents being apart? I read where he told them he will be gone for another year. I saw you mention his skewed view of coparenting and I wasn't sure if there was a specific reference or if I missed something...
Hang in there:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer