I am thinking it would be a very good idea to get the children and H into regular sessions with the child psychologist. The reason for this is that she will be a neutral third party and can pretty much hone into H's skewed view of co-parenting...especially minimizing his kids' concerns left and right.
Well, I can't get H into anything he doesn't want to do. I am going to get my kids into counseling, but the C I found can't get started seeing them for another few weeks.
I have contemplated agreeing to talk with H since he seems to want to talk, but only if we do so in a C session. Haven't decided whether to do this or not. Would love any opinions/insight.
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Since H is mostly concerned with 50/50 custody, I'd recommend that you work quickly with the L to settle that part so H will see for a fact that he has 50/50.
Nope. I am NOT agreeing to 50/50 physical custody. Joint legal custody, yes. Physical 50/50? No. Not right now. I do not believe it is in the best interest of the kids. And I am not going to screw them over in order to make my H happy and less mad at me.
I'm not worried about the terms of the D. I have my L for that, and he is awesome. I also think that H's lawyer will help inject some reality for H as far as that process goes.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
