I'm so sorry B. I wish there was something we could do. But unfortunately, I wouldn't be surprised if I find myself in your shoes 8 years down the road. My H isn't exactly sane or rational either. Mine, too, is just mad.
I hope he takes a long walk off a short pier.
WH
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"