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[tbm4evr]

Thanks Sandi. She asked me because I have been successful finding a couple groups for me but you're right she's LAZY and "i clean up behind her". Her girlfriends just use her and are enablers ... two are divorced and the other in a 3+ year affair. Im going to drop the issue and see if she raises it again or does something on her own.

Good point on her family being devastated because of her filing not herself. She talked about how her mom and dad felt not her. RetroV came up in the discussion, previously she did not agree to it because she didn't know what it was about she said ...we looked online and read about it together and then she said ok.

Yesterday W had plans to go out for St. Patricks Day with girlfriends at 530 so I said i would be home so she could get out. I have always arrived home exactly when I said i would ..well yesterday I gave her a "taste of her own medicine" and text her at 530 saying I'll be home at 6 and if that was ok ...she said sure but no later ...well at 555 she text again telling me to be on time. I didn't respond and when I got home shortly after 6 she asked me where I have been and not like me to do that. I just said i had things to do. Heck, I can't tell you how many times she has told me she will be home at a certain time and comes home several hours later.