She left - 2

[gogofo]

Thanks Ye, I have been doing better this evening. Reading upward's thread about her talk and your advice in that thread has helped my mental state a lot.

It is just going to be a talk to see where we both stand. Knowing how the W feels has to be a positive.

All I wanted in the beginning was to talk, pre DBing, and now will be the time. I'm glad it did not happen when I wanted it to earlier because I would have messed it up completely. All I would have done is "listen" by which I mean contradict he opinion if it did not agree with mine. With my new skills and validating her position, things should go much better.