Haha. My point was that there's a good chance this isn't gonna make sense for a long time, if ever. He just may have a screw lose and huge mother issues he projects onto you and will never be able to realize that. What then? You can't look to his views or perspectives for fairness, sense, or rationality. You can't. You can't get butter from a duck either. So stop looking to him for any kind of validation, it ain't there. You can wish it were different but no amount of trying to control this is going to give him any more sense. You're just hurting yourself and exhausting yourself too. So look elsewhere and give up worrying about his side of the street. Just keep your own side of the street happy and rational and sensible. That's really all you can do for yourself and your kids.
