Sounds like a productive talk to me. I have the same talk lined up for Thursday and I have it goes in the same direction as yours did. Reading your update gives me hope for your situation as well as mine.

Keep DBing and working on yourself and your family.

M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15