She was interested in "doing whatever it takes" when she came back after that 3-month affair. However, like I said, we had a bunch of fits and starts for awhile thereafter, and didn't even mutually withdraw our divorce action until about 6-7 months later, instead putting it on two different 3-month temporary stays.
Here's a link to my sitch, if you want to read any of it. It's loooooong, LOL. My username used to be first "Chocolateeyes" and then "Puppy Dog Tails," and as reference my wife's affair was May-Aug 2007.