Glad to hear you doing okay man. "Girls flirting" lol. I get that all the time but say thanks for the compliment and move on. It'll be unfair to any woman to off load all the baggages from the old relationship into a new one. Right now is time to heal and work on you. You also want to be careful not to fall for same crap. Women say one thing and do another. You not a home wrecker, you're a good man. keep up with the good work, Hopefully your wife will see all the changes and come back to her senses.