Portia, just saw your post after I posted my. Thanks for stopping by. I know what you mean about being out of advice. If I think about it, my H’s behavior follows some predictions that I, my sister, and my GFs made before. He thought he would find happiness in “live after me”. It doesn’t look like it is happening for him.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state