Not sure how to approach this. I am coming to a place where I am not afraid financially. It bothers me that she keeps leaving the choices up to me.
What do YOU need to live for you and your kids ??
That is where your answer lies.....
Originally Posted By: Groovshadow
As though I am the one causing all this and future problems.
It IS all your fault...
Didn't you get the memo ??
Textbook WAS there...
It WILL all be your fault, until it isn't anymore.
When is that ??
Only when she decides that it is.....
So why not just move forward with your life, and live the way that you want to. And if she decides one day, that things aren't as bad as what she convinced herself that they were ???
Sounds like something that I read in a DB book somewhere....
It doesn't matter who is wrong, or at fault right now, so why live like it is....
You aren't a victim of this, unless you allow yourself to be......
