BK, thanks for the article. Her experience is very close to my experience, except the melanoma, thank god.

Your questions really got me thinking. I'll be back with some answers.

I'll have to check on your sitch. haven't visited for a while. smile

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss