I know that the plus side is my ex not seeing our son. That sounds horrible but she needs that. I see him pretty much everyday. And the times when she has him and her plans change, I'm grateful that I get to see my son some more. One day she will realise she's been neglecting him. That's for her to figure out.
But you're right, I don't know what tomorrow brings.
Me-35 Com law-28 S-3 T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu 1st bu- 2/2012 Rec-4/2013 2nd bu-10/2013 IC-2 yrs(anger issues) MC- 5 mnths-fail OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14 New OM ~10/4/14