I'm obviously aware that patience will be required, especially as my WAW wife is still in an A, but I am curious to hear some people's stories of what was the breaking point for their S to either end their A, or for the LBS to move on. I'm sure everyone's timeline is different based on their individual needs. Just curious if there are some common threads out there.

Seems like A's are so common, I'm just curious if there are some commonalities for when they end and what happens to the MR

I know the typical success stories require the WAW to be remorseful, have true transparency etc, but I just wonder what gets them near that point


Me: 40
Wife: 38
M: 10. T: 18
S: 8, D: 6, S: 4
BD 02/01/14
Asked her to leave 02/01/14

Keeping the dream alive