So basically don't bring up her vacation until she does?

I'm definitely not mind reading when it comes to me looking after our son while she's gone. I'm not mind reading that she is going on vacation, she posted on fb.
I am mind reading who she's going with.

Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14