W and I had good discussion last night. She wants to find a group to help her learn to forgive, let go and love again but hasn't found one. If anyone knows of such a support group/organization I would be interested to hear. W also agreed to attend RetroV weekend first weekend of May and for the 6 weekly post sessions. W mentioned how devastated her family is that she wants D and wishes somehow how we could make it work but just doesn't know how. I said i would see if I could find a group for her ..she said thanks and that she recognizes she has issues too ...she told me that she forgives me for everything but inside knows she hasn't because she keeps bringing up the past issues with me and just can't let go of them. A lot of these support groups talk about healing yourself and moving on ..Obviously I want one that would be pro marriage ...going to start looking online today and see what's out there.
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
