Yeah. That's how I feel 95% of the time. An acceptance of where things are at and a knowledge that I'll be fine regardless of the outcome but knowing that things could change when she's in a more positive frame of mind.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014