Yeah. That's how I feel 95% of the time. An acceptance of where things are at and a knowledge that I'll be fine regardless of the outcome but knowing that things could change when she's in a more positive frame of mind.
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014