Thanks AS it is so good to hear from you! It has always helped me read your sitch and have you comment on mine. Yes I think W wants me to file because she likes to play the victim....I know that is mind reading but i have known her for 14 yrs!!! Right now she is the bad guy in her mind...But I don't think it is my job to intervene anymore in her relationship with my D's unless I feel it is harmful to D's. I think the other part of my worry is that my W hippie old friends are moving back to town and I don't trust them. They are in their 60's with no money and I think they think my W is their meal ticket. They have moved here and back more than 5 times they are very emotionally unstable and I don't want them around my kids! They are basically charlatans. Thanks for listening! It is good to be back here again!
