This, That and The Other

[BklynMom]

Hi Labug just caught up on your thread and remain so impressed with your recovery.

I can imagine how much more difficult it is to be recovered when you are restarting a relationship. So many of the old triggers must appear.

You talk on these boards a lot about your disease of depression, was your H going through any type of crisis or depression when he left or was it really only a response to your difficult behavior and once he saw that you were "cured" he felt safe to return?

Have you and your H spoken to your sons about what happened? Do they feel secure in your relationship as a family?