Just left my CoDa meeting ..After meeting, some people telling me I should let W know i am sorry for being verbally/emotionally abusive and controlling during our marriage and that I understand she does not deserve to be treated that way and that I am continuing on my recovery to address my unhealthy behavioral patterns ...does this make any sense? I planned to just work on myself to not be that way anymore and she should notice without me telling her ..mind you im sure she has noticed even up to this point ..advice? Btw, we had a great day today, out for lunch with the whole family and shopping, then returned home and we had a sitter so W met her girlfriends and I went to my meeting ...now home with W helping with the kids with some Irish food in the crock pot and some guiness beer for dinner ...with W saying we should watch another movie tonight ...no tension at all today ...
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14
