i'm here a lot!! i know what you mean though, it is comforting to know you're not alone and that others are going through some crazy thing too with their MLC'er.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs