Well I have been away from this site for a long time. We have been S for about a 1 1/2 years. Everyone tells us we should just get the D done. I am waiting for W to do the deed but I know she wants me to do it...But should I have to? I will sign the papers but if she wants to get this ball moving I am going to make it on her....
W is upset because D's are upset when they have to leave me and don't really want to be with her....but I have not done anything about that...and should I? When she and D (13) have a fight I now stay out of it, I don't think it is my place to intervene. I am taking the stance that her relationship with D is hers not mine. W is now pushing faster for D because she thinks it will be easier on D(13) "so she won't have so much hope that we will get back together." I told her a piece of paper is not going to make D(13) feel better. She got angry and told me to "grow up"! I have been very anxious lately and I don't know why....I am thinking it is because spring has been slow to come. But also because I can feel that W is going to file and take half the house...I will have to sell the house and that makes me nervous, sad and angry....
