It won't make or break the M at this point. You don't have to do anything that is uncomfortable for you.
I was simply trying to point these things out from the WAW's POV. I know you don't care she knows what time you got home. You missed my point. To her, it probably looked like you were being too obvious about "wanting" her to know you were out later than she was. And, if you were secretly wanting to draw attention to it, then you shot yourself in the foot.
IMO, a couple should not be parading around naked in front of each other when she wants to D you. I believe it is one of those familiarities that a MR has the "privilege" of sharing. But once a third party has come between the couple, that priviledge should end. It is an unspoken message you make loud and clear. But that's just me.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!